Beautiful or ugly, the difference is measured in milimeters

Dear all,

As my title suggests, today I am going to write about beauty and help you understand something. I mean I hope you do get my message. This is how the story starts; I was reading a book by a famous plastic surgeon from Hollywood. He has helped many superstars that we know today to look OUTSTANDING.

According to his book, for a woman to be beautiful, the distance of the tip of her lip to the base of her nose should be the distance of her top eye lid and the bottom eye lid when the eye is opened at a normal rate. Should she have 1mm extra or 1 mm less of this measurement, then she will be average. However, if the distance is more then or less then 1mm, then she would be ugly. This is just one of his illustrations in his book. This book was clearly written for other plastic surgeons. I am glad I read it, now I am able to share this small illustration with you.

Let us read on, you will find this very interesting.

I was also reading on golfing. It was an amateur who was taking golf lessons for the very first time. This is what had happened; the instructor kept telling him this is hard, it is difficult. The amateur golfer kept shooting the balls into the sand dunes or the water barrier. If you play golf, you know this will surely impact your par.

One part the golfer stopped, and looked at the instructor. He told him, it is not helping you standing there and telling me this is hard, this is difficult while you are charging me by the hour. Honestly, my grandmother will be able to do that for him for free. Anyways, let’s carry on. So the golfer was unhappy with his instructor. He said, I am paying to teach me, not tell me why I am not getting it right. The instructor answered, I will be able to teach you that. If you hold the club just a few MILLIMETERS in a different angle, the ball will go to the sand dunes. If you hold the club just a few MILLIMETERS in this angle, the ball will go into the lake. If you hold the club just a few MILLIMETERS in this angle, the ball will go straight into the green.

Now the golfer got what he wanted, so he followed the advice of his instructor. True enough, the ball went straight to the greens. He was astonished! He thought, the instructor did not know what he was talking about initially.

So what do the two stories above have in common?

Both of them illustrate the difference of success and failure, the difference of rich and poverty is only a millimeter. A change of your thought by a millimeter is what it takes. A change of your emotion/ mood by a millimeter is what it takes. A change of your effort by a millimeter is what it takes.

See I stated the change of your THOUGHT is primary. Without the change of your thought, you may change your mood and effort by a mile, you will not go anywhere. You will be where you are, and you will allow frustration consume you.

The above illustrations are clear and real life examples that you can change your life, career, yourself, change your finances just by working on the little things. We, human beings, tend to be more focused on efforts. We push and push our selves, but we do not think in a proper manner. We tell ourselves, we can’t do it, how ever we keep pushing more and more, wanting more physically. How can you win a physical battle, when you have failed to control your thoughts and emotions? If you fail to control your thoughts emotions, your efforts are fruitless.

You can do and be anything you want to be, you are created in the likeness of the Creator Himself. You are God Force. You have the power that is sleeping within you, when awaken, it will astonish you. This law is the law of God.

I hope I have helped you understand this law better. Efforts without the right drain of thought or positive charged emotions will not help you.

Thank you for reading

Ajitpal Singh
The Success Architect